This morning we had our SDA appointment... we went into a room with Nadya, our translator, and another woman who works at the SDA. She first asked us how we heard about Kellsey and we told her that we had friends who were here before us who met her and told us about her. She then explained to us that Kellsey was a "difficult" child (meaning she has Down syndrome) and asked us why we would want to adopt her, specifically. We told her about having Kennedy at home and already knowing about Down syndrome and that we felt we can provide Kellsey with a loving, stable home and a good life. This made her smile at the thought of Kellsey having a big sister "like her". She asked how old Kennedy was and how she was doing.
Then she told us that Kellsey was born in the hospital on November 6, 2006. She had no brothers and sisters and her mother abandoned her there when they told her she had Down syndrome and gave up her rights to Kellsey shortly after. There was no mention of Kellsey's father. We do not know how old Kellsey's mother was or if she is the one who named her. I would guess not, though.
She said that Kellsey was born with a hole in her heart (which we knew) and enlarged adenoids, which is pretty typical. We'll get these things checked out thoroughly when we get home with her. Otherwise, no other health problems were noted.
She showed us the sweetest newborn picture of Kellsey which we can have if we can give them a more recent picture of her to keep on file. We're working on that. Oh she was SO beautiful!!!
We showed the SDA worker a recent picture of Kellsey on my phone and she asked to see a picture of Kennedy and asked us to send her a picture of the 2 girls together after we got home :). We said of course we would!
Later today we are going back to the SDA (I'm pretty sure) to pick up her referral. We can't go to see Kellsey until tomorrow morning. (DARN!) Something to look forward to though!!!
Frank and I are off to find lunch. I can't believe it, but it's even COLDER here today! Snow flurries are falling and everything! BRRR! I'll update again later!
Monday, November 2, 2009
SDA Appointment
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4:05 AM
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11 comments:
that is so awesome that Kellsey's birthday really fits in with your family! I never noticed that before!
God must really have hand picked her for your family all the more!
I am so thankful that I can read about your journey as you guys are experiencing it.
keeping you all in my prayers,
Rebecca
Wonderful!! You will probably get more information about her birth and birth parents at the orphange. They tend to have more information than the SDA does! So happy it went well and in just a few short hours you get to meet your daughter!!! Exciting!! Can't wait to see pictures!
Soooo exciting! Can't wait for pictures!!!!
Kris (in NH)
How wonderful!! I can't wait to see her baby picture. We're praying for you guys!!
still praying everything is smooth for you all...as long as you are not driving or drinking the water, right??? Looking forward to seeing pictures of you, Frank and the newest "special K" tomorrow
im glad that everything is moving along fine =)
i love all your posts, it really feels like i was there. =)
blessings,
I am so excited for all of you--though as a Canadian I am a little bemused by your reaction to the weather! I love that they want a picture of the two sisters together.
Lori in Prince Edward Island
So glad everything is going so well thus far!! So exciting you'll be meeting her tomorrow :)!
Qadoshyah
Can't wait to see new pictures of the latest family member. Won't it be fun to send them a picture of Kennedy and Kellsey dressed alike at Christmas!
DD
Designs by DD
It sounds like a very good appointment, I am so happy you did not have any drama.
Tomorrow, which is tonight for us! I cannot wait, I think I may stay up and keep checking for a new post!
Sorry about that snow, I feel like I jinxed you LOL. Tha same thing happened to us, it was such a shock, it was 60 the day we came and the snow began the day after. I ended up buying a pair of fur-lined boots, I loved them, they kept my feet toasty warm. You will likely not need them since you are not staying as long.
So fun! We don't have any really early pictures of Nika as a baby. :( They were very excited to know Nika would have a sibling "like her", so yeah, play that up! LOL. Can't wait for tomorrow!
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